I need mommy help!

ByErica

First let me tell you a little about my son Nolan…

Nolan is a fearless/escape artist! He climbed out of his crib at 15 months and knocked out his front tooth, so I put him in a toddler bed, then me not knowing he could open doors yet unlocked the deadbolt and door lock on the front door and got out of the house, so I looked up locksmith Lexington professionals to see about putting extra locks on the door… I now have 5 locks that I lock the front door with to be safe. You would think I was scared of burglars! But the threat is coming from inside the house (he knows how to unlock 3 of them now).

Then came the childproof door handle that he quickly figured out how to break apart to get off of the door, so I put duct tape around it so he could not take it apart. Oh, had I had an iron door with firm handles, that he couldn’t get hold of then he wouldn’t break that open, I suppose. I might need to look for options here at websites of companies like Forever Custom Iron Doors if I were to buy such doors with handles. Sadly of all, he learned how to push the grips in and open the door anyway, then I took the grips off. This did not last long he still learned how to open the door anyway so out with the childproof doorknob so we bought a whole new knob and made the lock on the outside so he could not get out of his room at night (not safe). It won’t be long until he makes it out of the front door again, which worries me. I’ve been looking into how to change lock which will make it more difficult for him to get out. As well as keeping the keys for the key locks well out of reach. There are also plenty of other options that I have been considering to try and minimize this issue. A friend of mine recommended to me recently that I could look into metal door handles as they might be harder for him to grab ahold of. If this option was of interest to you then you may want to research FSB on ait xia dialog, or you could go for a local retailer’s recommendation if preferable. We are currently still researching options for how to get around this problem.

Then came the kitchen, we have a gate so that he can not get into the kitchen but soon realized the peephole into the kitchen (which is a good 5 feet off the ground) and took a char, climbed through, and jumped down off the counter. I still have not figured out how to fix this one other to get onto him every time he does it.

Next was the table and chair that he stacked in his room to turn on the light in his room, so I added a longer string to the light and took away the table and chair so that he does not hurt himself.

Now here is where I need help, he has a toy box in his room that is full of toys and he is now dumping all the toys out every time he goes to bed or down for a nap, this is getting so old and cleaning up all the toys every day two times a day (which I make him help me). Now today it was not just the toys he also pulled out all the clothes…. I do not know what to do about this and I do not want to just throw away all of his toys, plus if I did that he would even understand why I did..

I’m not to sure what to do and could use some advice from other moms!

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  1. Until he can understand not too I'd probably bring the tub of toys out of the room at naps, not sure what to do about the clothes because that would be hard to move (which I'm hoping you have anchored to the wall incase he tries to climb it right? – if not I'd do that right away!) How old is he now?

    1. He just turned 3! I think I will just have to start taking them out.. Thanks

  2. I try to keep our toys out of the bedroom and just in the playroom. The playroom is usually a disaster, but I think that's better for us! We also put a lock on the closet door because my kids would go in and pull everything off the hangers. While he's going through this phase, you might just want to pull everything out of his room. As a bonus, it might help him fall asleep more quickly.

  4. I was unable to type after pasting the links into my previous comment. The flip licks are great for doors and are impossible to force open. The magnetic licks are for cupboards and cabinets. I have tried to force them open without the mAgnetic with no luck. Just be sure you bu extra magnet to open with in case you lose it of you too will be locked out. I ordered both online

    1. I have never seen the Magic Key before that is so cool! Thanks

  6. I was thinking the same thing Katie said. I worry about him pulling out the drawers and hitting himself. It depends on the type of drawers the dresser has. Do you have a monitor in his room so that when he falls asleep for nap time or bed time you can place it in there and have it on while he sleeps? That way you will hear him wake up and get to him before any damage is even started?

  7. Can you turn it facing the wall backwards so he cant get in it? Thats what I did with all my shelves during nap time when I taught preschool. Good luck lady!

  8. I second everything everyone else said, and.. have you ever read the book Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne? Simplifying the amount of toys that even existed in our home made a world of difference to us! Good Luck!

  9. my son is a monkey too, he is only 2 but has already learned he can use chairs to climb on to get higher…i'm sure his next step will be combining table and chair! Turning the dresser around is a good idea if its not too heavy. Kaden started taking clothes out of the drawers a long time ago. i used bungee cords to keep the drawers shut, he still managed to get clothes out sometimes! But it slowed him down and now there are no bungee cords and he no longer gets the clothes out, i think he just forgot about it. maybe have your son clean up the toys and clothes by himself with your guidance and maybe he will get tired of all the cleaning. Or taking a toy that he really likes to play with every time he does that.

  10. I'm not a mom but I do see one mistake. You're helping him clean up his toys. When he made the mess, then he should clean it up. that's just my thoughts tho. as for the other stuff I have no idea. I think your child is smarter than you give him credit for one. All kids are smarter than most adults in some way. hope you find the help you need hun.

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